by dwanamaker » Tue Jul 27, 2010 10:14 pm
Madalyn,
He does have a "separation anxiety" issue, that was present before his pasture mate passed on. But, it seems to have gotten worse since he is gone. He seems to be to the point where it is a nuisance and exhausting. It's with his riding buddy, which is a mare. The other day I went for a ride with her and if she leaves his sight for even a second, he is all over the place(when I'm on the ground holding him). If I'm on him, he is prancing, dancing, side stepping, mini rears, etc. It is ridiculous! He was like that before Willy (his pasture mate) left, but not this bad! And it's worse with this damn mare! I can't even lead him away from her, without him having a fit. I can ride away on him, but he will be anxious, and will neigh for 1/2 mile, before he settles down. He wasn't like that with Willy. At All! I could lead Willy away from him and he would pace the fence, but not like he does with this mare! You would think it was his mother or something.
He even will neigh to me, and wonder where I am, if he is left in the barn by himself, and the other horses are out. I have an even better story than that! This is really interesting and cute!
When I was camping last year, with my friend and his riding buddy, this mare I'm talking about. They were picketed together at our campsite. Very comfortable. My friend and I had to go down the camping road a little ways to the water spicket. It was close enough to walk, but far enough away, and around a bend, where Jay, could not see me/us. Well, all of a sudden we heard Jay neighing and neighing. Wouldn't stop. We thought something had happened to the mare and she got loose, or something. I ran up the hill to find Jay and the mare still there, but Jay was looking off in the direction of where we had walked away to, Head up, full alert, and stopped the neighing once he caught site of me again. Walked away and he started neighing again, even though his mare was right next to him!
How do you like that for separation anxiety!?!
Diana